Comments on: All is Always Good, Right? http://www.restaurantgal.com/2009/02/all-is-always-good-right/ Scenes from the podium...one pager at a time. Sun, 05 Feb 2012 18:18:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.3 By: Junior http://www.restaurantgal.com/2009/02/all-is-always-good-right/comment-page-1/#comment-8010 Junior Sat, 21 Feb 2009 08:41:29 +0000 http://www.restaurantgal.com/?p=740#comment-8010 You sound like my girlfriend.. bat shit crazy twice a month, only to be better every day after.. its ok.. let the emotions flow.. You'll be better afterwards.. psssssst.. guys do it also.. you just don't hear about it.. :) Rock Chalk! You sound like my girlfriend.. bat shit crazy twice a month, only to be better every day after.. its ok.. let the emotions flow.. You’ll be better afterwards..

psssssst.. guys do it also.. you just don’t hear about it.. :)

Rock Chalk!

]]> By: JoeInVegas http://www.restaurantgal.com/2009/02/all-is-always-good-right/comment-page-1/#comment-8004 JoeInVegas Thu, 19 Feb 2009 16:53:45 +0000 http://www.restaurantgal.com/?p=740#comment-8004 Yes, you are okay. Yes, you are okay.

]]> By: blewknight http://www.restaurantgal.com/2009/02/all-is-always-good-right/comment-page-1/#comment-7999 blewknight Tue, 17 Feb 2009 18:56:14 +0000 http://www.restaurantgal.com/?p=740#comment-7999 Well at least your still going forward. Things are looking up. Well at least your still going forward. Things are looking up.

]]> By: Restaurant Gal http://www.restaurantgal.com/2009/02/all-is-always-good-right/comment-page-1/#comment-7998 Restaurant Gal Mon, 16 Feb 2009 23:35:35 +0000 http://www.restaurantgal.com/?p=740#comment-7998 blewknight--I know. I just hate being blindsided by a "cry" when all is really going quite well for me here. That two steps forward, one back feeling. blewknight–I know. I just hate being blindsided by a “cry” when all is really going quite well for me here. That two steps forward, one back feeling.

]]> By: blewknight http://www.restaurantgal.com/2009/02/all-is-always-good-right/comment-page-1/#comment-7997 blewknight Mon, 16 Feb 2009 21:07:45 +0000 http://www.restaurantgal.com/?p=740#comment-7997 Yes RG, your fine. We ALL need a "cry" day every now and then. At least you now what direction to go (nowhere to go but UP). Yes RG, your fine. We ALL need a “cry” day every now and then. At least you now what direction to go (nowhere to go but UP).

]]> By: Restaurant Gal http://www.restaurantgal.com/2009/02/all-is-always-good-right/comment-page-1/#comment-7996 Restaurant Gal Mon, 16 Feb 2009 12:07:46 +0000 http://www.restaurantgal.com/?p=740#comment-7996 Namaste--I do have a tough time being "okay." Life has proven too many times that the "other shoe" is usually poised to make an appearance. Down here, life is simpler. But people are people and they can trigger all kinds of emotions. The way I see it, I am more than okay, and I now have to fight off the dread that I won't be okay again. Valentine's Day, however, is simply not a good day for me. Namaste–I do have a tough time being “okay.” Life has proven too many times that the “other shoe” is usually poised to make an appearance. Down here, life is simpler. But people are people and they can trigger all kinds of emotions. The way I see it, I am more than okay, and I now have to fight off the dread that I won’t be okay again. Valentine’s Day, however, is simply not a good day for me.

]]> By: namaste http://www.restaurantgal.com/2009/02/all-is-always-good-right/comment-page-1/#comment-7995 namaste Mon, 16 Feb 2009 02:39:37 +0000 http://www.restaurantgal.com/?p=740#comment-7995 sorry, i mean to write "how can we resist..". (fingers faster than brain...) sorry, i mean to write “how can we resist..”. (fingers faster than brain…)

]]> By: namaste http://www.restaurantgal.com/2009/02/all-is-always-good-right/comment-page-1/#comment-7994 namaste Mon, 16 Feb 2009 02:38:31 +0000 http://www.restaurantgal.com/?p=740#comment-7994 You're ok. It could be entirely possible that you're only self-punishing because you may not feel as though you have the right to be ok Hmmm.... Recognize it for what it is. You're more than ok. Really. But nothing is ever linear. How can resist loving the highs when we don't know the lows? You’re ok. It could be entirely possible that you’re only self-punishing because you may not feel as though you have the right to be ok Hmmm…. Recognize it for what it is. You’re more than ok. Really. But nothing is ever linear. How can resist loving the highs when we don’t know the lows?

]]> By: Restaurant Gal http://www.restaurantgal.com/2009/02/all-is-always-good-right/comment-page-1/#comment-7993 Restaurant Gal Sun, 15 Feb 2009 22:37:51 +0000 http://www.restaurantgal.com/?p=740#comment-7993 Jenni--Yes, it probably was necessary to crash a bit. Something about Valentine's Day, you know? Laurie--I mean no disrespect, and I appreciate your thoughts and opinions. But I think you may have missed the point of my post. Men/boys do not run my life. Yes, I had some bad friends in Fort Lauderdale. Yes, I had hurtful relationships with men there. I have really terrific friends here, and absolutely no boyfriends are on the horizon by choice--mine. My sadness was jump started by the romantic symbolism surrounding Valentine's Day, and it all just felt a little crazy, so I wrote about it. You may think I need to move out of Florida because I am doing the "same thing, different place." Personally, I think it is time for me to stay put for a while and deal with my life as it is--in the happy, peaceful, sad, and turbulent times that are the realities of everyone's life. The point of the post, you see, is that it's okay. I am okay. L.--Thanks and you make an interesting point. I know I feel like writing a lot more here than I did in Fort Lauderdale. Hopefully, it will continue to improve. mikepete--Okay then! Kim--I'll concur and reach across the pond to hug you. Upset Waitress--You are crazy. So am I. Who isn't. As for getting advice for your own craziness, please look beyond this blog! Jenni–Yes, it probably was necessary to crash a bit. Something about Valentine’s Day, you know?

Laurie–I mean no disrespect, and I appreciate your thoughts and opinions. But I think you may have missed the point of my post. Men/boys do not run my life. Yes, I had some bad friends in Fort Lauderdale. Yes, I had hurtful relationships with men there. I have really terrific friends here, and absolutely no boyfriends are on the horizon by choice–mine. My sadness was jump started by the romantic symbolism surrounding Valentine’s Day, and it all just felt a little crazy, so I wrote about it. You may think I need to move out of Florida because I am doing the “same thing, different place.” Personally, I think it is time for me to stay put for a while and deal with my life as it is–in the happy, peaceful, sad, and turbulent times that are the realities of everyone’s life. The point of the post, you see, is that it’s okay. I am okay.

L.–Thanks and you make an interesting point. I know I feel like writing a lot more here than I did in Fort Lauderdale. Hopefully, it will continue to improve.

mikepete–Okay then!

Kim–I’ll concur and reach across the pond to hug you.

Upset Waitress–You are crazy. So am I. Who isn’t. As for getting advice for your own craziness, please look beyond this blog!

]]> By: Upset waitress http://www.restaurantgal.com/2009/02/all-is-always-good-right/comment-page-1/#comment-7992 Upset waitress Sun, 15 Feb 2009 15:50:22 +0000 http://www.restaurantgal.com/?p=740#comment-7992 And I thought I was crazy RG. Anyway, I want Laurie to do me next. Do me do me it's my turn. And I thought I was crazy RG. Anyway, I want Laurie to do me next. Do me do me it’s my turn.

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